Being a first responder during the holidays can feel like a cruel joke. While others are cozying up with cocoa, you’re wrestling with emergencies, cranky coworkers, and a skeleton crew. But fear not, holiday warriors! We’ve cooked up a snarky, heartfelt list of traditions that’ll keep you connected with your family even when you’re chasing chaos instead of Santa Claus.
1. Elf on the Duty Shift
Sure, “Elf on the Shelf” is adorable, but why stop there? Sneak a little elf—or any mischievous figurine—into your gear bag and take photos of it “on duty.” Think the elf hitting the siren button, riding in the squad car, or posing with the fire hose. Bonus points for getting your crew involved. Nothing says “holiday spirit” like a tactical elf busting perps.
2. Midnight Gift Sneak
Can’t be home to see your family open presents? Wrap some gifts before your shift and hide them around the house. Then, send your kids a video of you opening a hilariously bad decoy gift at the station. Nothing says “love” like watching Dad unwrap socks while you score the new LEGO set.
3. “Shiftmas” Meal Delivery
Coordinate with your family to drop off a plate of holiday magic at the station. Whether it’s Grandma’s famous stuffing or your favorite pie, it’ll bring a slice of home to work. Pro tip: Bring extra for the crew—because nothing fosters goodwill like bribery with carbs.
4. Reverse Santa
You don’t need a sleigh, chimney, or even a beard to make magic happen. Come home after a grueling shift and stealthily leave little surprises for your sleeping kids. You’ve honed your ninja skills on the beat—now’s your time to shine by sneaking in a few “gifts from Santa.”
5. “Santa on Patrol” Drive
Before or after your shift, load up the car and take your kids for a spin to see holiday lights. Wear your uniform for bonus “Santa’s helper” vibes. Who needs a sleigh when you’ve got flashing lights and sirens? Just don’t forget to turn off the scanner unless you want your toddler learning 10-codes.
6. Cookies for the Crew
Start a tradition of baking cookies with your family before heading to work. Then share them with your coworkers—because no one trusts the guy who doesn’t bring snacks. Plus, it’s a sneaky way to ensure your kids don’t eat the whole batch before Santa gets any.
7. FaceTime Ornament Hanging
Technology to the rescue! Schedule a quick FaceTime call during your shift to virtually hang an ornament on the tree. Your kids can show off their (slightly wonky) decorating skills, and you get to pretend you didn’t notice they hung the glitter star upside down.
8. Holiday Playlist Battle
Create a family holiday playlist and have each member add their favorite tracks. Listen to it at work, and they can blast it at home. It’s like a musical hug across miles. Bonus points for sneaking in “Grandma Got Run Over by a Reindeer” during a shift storytime.
9. Station-Side Stockings
Leave mini stockings at the station for your crew to fill with snacks, notes, or the occasional gag gift. Share the love with your second family while keeping it lighthearted. (Because nothing says “holiday cheer” like finding a rubber chicken in your stocking.)
10. First Responder Gingerbread Contest
Okay, hear me out: gingerbread houses are for amateurs. Try building a gingerbread fire station, police cruiser, or even a crime scene (complete with candy canes as barricades). Get your family in on the action and crown a winner during your next video call.
11. Shiftmas Letters
Write a heartfelt letter to your kids, spouse, or even your dog about how much they mean to you. Hide it under the tree, in their lunchbox, or anywhere they’ll find it while you’re away. Sure, it’s sentimental, but you’re allowed to have a soft side—even if it’s wrapped in turnout gear.
A Gift for the Future: Planning Beyond the Holiday Rush
While you’re juggling holiday traditions and duty shifts, take a moment to think about your family’s future. As a first responder, you know the importance of planning for the unexpected. Consider long-term care planning to give your family peace of mind and financial stability.
The NPFBA’s long-term care plan is specifically designed for California’s first responders and their families. Signing up means securing guaranteed insurability and a safety net for the future—so you can focus on making memories today, knowing your family is protected tomorrow. Check out NPFBA’s offerings and make it a tradition to plan for your family’s future as fiercely as you protect their present.
Remember, the holidays aren’t about where you are—it’s about the love you share, even from miles away. So go ahead, first responders—make this season yours, one gritty, heartfelt tradition at a time.
